Expository

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Who Am I?

I wonder if I’ll ever know,

Who I’m meant to be.

They say some things will come and go,

They weren’t talking about me.

 

No, I won’t be here forever;

Not once was that my plan.

Although I do endeavor

To tell where it all began.

 

Let’s take it back to our first few years

To when our parents’ word was law,

Back to when our minds, through ears,

Could see in life no flaw.

 

We were told we could be what we wished,

No dreams were out of reach.

A singer who sang, a fisherman that fished,

A teacher who loved to teach!

 

Getting older we began to see,

Not everything they said was true;

Some of the things we wanted to be

Were beyond reach..We had not a clue.

 

As sad as it may seem,

That was not where it ended.

Was it part of their scheme?

From that point on, our lives were upended.

 

No longer could we do no wrong,

Our hopes, our ideas, now called into question.

Society had come on so strong,

They took away our right to expression.

 

We should have known,

They fed us lies the whole time

We control our lives. Us, alone.

If only we’d trusted ourselves in our prime.

 

Literature has tried to save us.

It tried so very hard.

It had been there from the beginning, no fuss

or complaints were made, it voluntarily stood guard.

 

It was there when we needed it,

When society turned us down.

Or whenever we gave a fit,

Whenever we wore a frown.

 

It knew from the beginning

That our morals are all we have to go on.

It beckoned to us, grinning.

Our names it called thereon.

 

Literature helped us realize

Who we are as a whole.

Our minds it helped to civilize.

In us, it found a soul.

 

It made sure that we knew

How important it was for

Us to know ourselves, through and through.

Literature knew what was in store.

 

For the better we know ourselves,

The easier life will be.

Often, it just sits on shelves,

All-knowing, waiting just to see.

 

The more we read,

The better we’ll see

The kind of people we need,

The kind of people we’ll be.

 

Becoming self-aware does not happen in a day,

But if we ever get there,

“How grand this is!” we’ll say;

Such confidence we’ll wear!

 

Everything I’ve learned today

Can be found page after page.

With that, I am perfectly okay;

Thanks to literature, my mind is not a cage.

Religion Narrative

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         My Beliefs Are My Choice

          As a kid, I should not have to have my entire life figured out. As a stubborn teenage girl, I do not want others making major decisions for me. It bothers me when other people (mainly family members) try to influence me on certain topics, one of those topics being religion.
Growing up, most kids are told that they can believe in whatever they like. Why does that have to change as they get older? Why are kids forced to transition from “Don’t listen to anybody, you can believe in anything that you want” to “If you don’t believe in the same God as the rest of the family then you are going to hell”?
My mom was forced into the Catholic religion when she was younger and she hated it. She promised us that she would never make my brothers and I do anything that we did not like. As a kid, I didn’t mind going to church. It made my grandparents happy and we got to eat breakfast if we were quiet during mass. What more could a kid ask for?
However, I grew further apart from the church world as I grew older. I started questioning my religious surroundings. I could not fathom why members of my extended family would enjoy being held in a dull church full of maliciously opinionated elderly people. I also started to notice a reoccurring pattern of double standards and hypocrisy. One example of double standard-ism that I noticed was when religious people felt that it was perfectly acceptable for themselves to openly praise their God/religion, but felt terribly abhorred when others did not agree with their beliefs. Apparently freedom of speech only works one way. A specific example of hypocrisy occurred when my step-aunt told my family that we were “bad people” because we did not attend her church. That same aunt went on to get exceedingly drunk that evening and drove her young children home, none of which who have ever been required to use their car seats or seatbelts. She saw nothing wrong with her decision to endanger herself and her children. There have been multiple occasions in which her “perfect, church-going” family has chosen to question my family’s choices while simultaneously making life threateningly bad decisions herself.
When my grandparents and a few members of my stepdad’s family found out that I did not enjoy the same “personal relationship with God” that they all seemed to share, they took it as a personal offense. They took it upon themselves to have religious conversations with me (they were actually one-sided conversations about how much they love their church and their religion) and bombard me with invitations to join them in church. (They have all admitted that they did not wish to experience any religions when others were inviting them to; they had to want to go on their own. No one else sees the irony in this situation.) I know that my extended family wants me to be happy like they seem to be, but I do not appreciate it when they try to shove their religion down my throat. Let it be known that I have no problem with religion. I have a problem with the religious people who try to control my life. I should be allowed to make my own decisions and come to my own conclusions. For now, I’d consider myself to be agnostic: I do not know if there is a greater power out there or not. I do not think that there is enough evidence to prove or disprove a God or gods.
In my eyes, the religious system is highly flawed. A large number of people who follow a certain God/religion do so blindly. They pick and choose pieces of the bible (or other religious book) to live their lives by. It bothers me that they consider themselves to be “better people” because of their religious beliefs. Your beliefs do not make you a better person, your behavior does.

*I would like to point out that my accusations do not apply to every religious person. I do know religious people who are not hypocritical or judgmental.

Gay Marriage Persuasive

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Don’t Hate What You Don’t Know

“There is a huge difference between gay marriage being legal and gay marriage being accepted” (Ashley Palmer). Gay marriage is just marriage. One does not gay feed the fish or put the gay dishes away. If all people are the same on the inside, why judge the outside? Why should a person’s sexual orientation be a cause for harassment? Love is love. There should be no difference between a gay wedding and a straight wedding. Remember how many protests took place when people wanted to marry interracially? Or when women first started speaking out about equal rights? The majority of today’s population does not think twice about interracial marriage or women’s rights; they are not considered to be anything different than the cultural norm. In fact, many people consider it to be ridiculous that anyone refused the ideas originally. In 20 years, people will look back on Americans and question why anyone would have a problem with gay marriage.
Those who are opposed to gay marriage are often religious. They pick pieces of the bible and use them to defend some of their world views. The problem with this is that many things that are in the bible do not apply to today. Children do not get stoned to death for misbehaving, “an eye for an eye” is considered extremely harsh and outdated, and people do not believe that cheating is a sin. So why is it that religious people still cling to the idea that homosexuality is a sin? Why is it that it is okay to pick and choose pieces of the bible when it seems convenient? If a person chooses to promote the bible, they should promote all of the good parts. If they are smart enough to realize that many pieces of the bible are outdated and immoral, why do they not realize that homophobia is unjust?

Many people have stepped forward and admitted that they fully support the topic of gay marriage. Daniel Radcliffe stated that “You don’t have to be gay to be a supporter you just have to be human.” Mr. Radcliffe is not alone in his beliefs. Many celebrities openly state their opinions; there is even a song about gay marriage that is getting increasingly popular. Along with Daniel Radcliffe, Macklemore states that he does not have to be gay to support what is right; “I may not be the same, but that’s not important. No freedom till we’re equal, damn right I support it.”

Although many people are supportive, there are quite a few well respected people who have publically stated that they are not okay with gay rights in general. Torii Hunter mentioned that “For me, as a Christian…I will be uncomfortable because in all my teachings and all my learning, biblically, it’s not right. It will be difficult and uncomfortable.” A lot of people look up to celebrities. When they openly say that they do not approve of the way that some people are, those people take it personally. It is not uncommon for people to commit suicide rather than face what will come to them if they tell people that they are gay. The problem with famous people is that they do not consider the consequences that their words can have.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. However, if someone feels negatively about a certain topic, they should keep it to themselves. Bullying of all sorts could be stopped if negative comments are kept in the minds of the people who create them. “I urge all of those who oppose gay marriage to start focusing on their own lives, to accept that they don’t need to marry a person of the same sex, and to recognize the right of all Americans to be treated equally under the law. ‘Liberty and justice for all’ should not come with a disclaimer” (Anonymous).

No matter the topic, there will be those who are against it; that is fine. What is not fine is those individuals going out of their way to make people feel bad about themselves. Stop the judgment, no matter the reason.

Greatest Fear

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Nothing To Fear, Lex is Here!
Everyone gets busy. Some people are busier than others. How many people can find the time to make a difference in the world? How many people can make a difference in just one life? How many people waste years of their life doing things that regret, things that do not matter? That is my greatest fear; wasting crucial time on inconsequential matters. More specifically, dying before getting to make a difference in as many lives as possible. To leave the Earth without leaving a mark is truly the worst imaginable fate.
As a kid, I was very observant. I would watch as certain others went through their lives without a care. They did what they wanted, said what they wanted, and never helped a single person. It bothered me tremendously. How could they be so self-centered? Do they not notice the people dying around them? If they would just talk to someone in need, they could change that person’s life forever. It is not hard to change someone’s life. I once heard a quote that said “Wherever life takes you, leave the place shaking, disrupted and trying to imagine what it was like before you came. Be a force for change. For pondering. And re-pondering. For love and the belief in the good of people” (Jordan Lejuwaan). I decided that I would be a force for change. I would make a difference in as many people’s lives as possible. The only problem that I encountered was time. How can I complete all of my projects while doing everything that is required of a teenager? Between a job and school; let alone things I like, books, family, etc. I have to try to find a way to make a difference before my time runs out.
Companies today convince their buyers that there is always something to do. The problem with this is that they want you to waste your time with their product instead of actually being productive. Millions of people get tricked into wasting precious time on insignificant products. The majority of those people believe that they have nothing better to do with their time, so they might as well waste time doing what companies tell them to do. They believe that, because they are only one person, they are not important enough to make a difference. Cultural Anthropologist Margaret Mead challenged people like them by saying, “Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.” I wholeheartedly believe in Margaret’s words. There are many people who share the same views as Margaret and I. William James said, “Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.” Colin Wilson acknowledged, “The mind has exactly the same power as the hands: not merely to grasp the world, but to change it.” Thomas Paine believed that “we have it in our power to change the world over.” If so many people feel this way, why do others go through life only thinking about themselves?

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